MANY families experience the same problem: The memories we've captured in photos and home videos are tucked away and rarely shared. In fact, by our calculations, there are trillions of photos, billions of home movies trapped inside millions of old boxes in garages, attics and closets across the world. They're fading away, waiting to be converted "some day." 

   My daughter has learned a great deal about romance compatibility since she left home and got her own place when she was twenty-one years old. She has gone through a number of relationships leading up to her finding love compatibility and getting married when she was twenty-nine years old. Now she is a genuine mama with two beautiful children - a two-year-old girl and a one-year old boy. She is in a position of being able to advise her friends - mostly a couple years younger than her - about love compatibility. Not surprisingly, a large percentage of her friends are not married, although a few are single mothers. From my viewpoint, single mothers really need help in the love compatibility area. Love compatibility is the basis of a long-term relationship. A permanent, long-term relationship is what is at the heart of every woman’s needs. No woman is looking for a short-term empty relationship. A woman can easily feel love compatibility with an attractive man but what I think needs to be looked at honestly is whether there is love compatibility from the man’s viewpoint. If there is not mutual love compatibility between a man and a woman then there is an imbalance in the relationship. One partner is expecting more than the other partner can comfortably give. One partner will never be satisfied and the other will never be able to satisfy.

      This kind of mismatch happens with new couples repeatedly. I see it regularly. My wife and I have been happily married since March 17, 1977. Thirty-three years this month! I would say we have love compatibility. I am not saying that I have not put my wife through some rough times at different points, but I have been there with her to go through those times together. When I met her in 1973 for the first time, it was at my job. She had already scoped me out when she worked in another department before she came into my department to work. The first time I laid eyes on her my heart skipped a beat. Everything about her appearance screamed romance compatibility to me. I fell in love with her right then but I was in such shock I didn’t realize what happened to me until later on that night when I went to bed and thought about her. It was easy to fall for her because she had already fallen for me and decided to be with me before I had even laid eyes on her. Here we are together after all of these years and we both feel comfortable with each other. That’s a charm.

    What about all of those young couples that get married and then find their marriage falling apart after just a couple of years? What about their love compatibility? What can they do now that they have engaged in a lifelong relationship and probably have children? What can I say to help?

     I went online and I started poking around the concept of love compatibility. I didn’t know for sure what I was looking for. I was thinking about one of my granddaughters and how she is in a new relationship with a very nice young man and they are planning on marriage. How could I communicate good advice to her? I came upon an online store called Perfume for Romance located at www.perfumeforromance.com. The store is totally dedicated to romance compatibility and carries products that aim to be a help in the eternal quest for love compatibility. I noticed a book available that you might not think was appropriate for a new marriage but if you really think about it, Save the Marriage by Lee H. Baucom PHD, could be the best book to begin with by solving problems before they even could start up.

Final Tip for love compatibility: Learn to be happy inside all of the time because that's what  everyone is looking for in a relationship. If you have happiness you are romantically attractive.

My mother, like many other women that I know in my life, loves romance stories. Lately, she has been emailing me links to some free online romance novels that she has been reading. She has not been sending me the links to these free online romance novels sites because these are the types of books that I like to read, but for other reasons. Namely, I am a pro writer, and I have a few books that I have already written. But like most writers, I have always greatly struggled to get anything done with them. After my mom found all of these websites that allow for users to read free online romance novels – she thought that maybe I could take my books and publish them online and garner a following slowly but surely. I am very thankful that I have such a loving and caring mother who can take something as simple as free online romance novels websites and think of her son, who has been trying to get his book published for ten years now! THANKS MOM FOR THINKING OF ME!

There are some things that I have learned over the years about being with the same person for nearly fourteen years: sometimes simple things like women's lingerie can really spice up an otherwise dull evening. Take the past few months for example, where my wife and I have been really stressed about finances with the holidays coming up; we just paid off our credit card balances and are not fond of maxing them out again. But after resolving our fight, I decided to really take the next step forwards. I shopped online for some really sexy women's lingerie – I know her sizes – and had them overnighted to my home. When she got home from work one day, there were some candles lit, a dinner prepared, and a hot bath drawn. Afterwards, I presented her with her gift to apologize for being a jerk: her favorite women's lingerie that I ordered online for a great deal. Needless to say, the rest of the night was like a heated chapter from a popular romance novel—and thanks to the women's lingerie I got her, there can be many more evenings like this yet to come!

Okay lovers, couples and those who have been married forever and a day, or for those of you who recently found love. Let me tell you something about being married for ten plus years: sometimes you run out of romantic ideas. But I have a viable and free solution to your woes. I like to read free romance stories online from time to time to find out different ways that I can really show my wife that I still care; that there is still a spark there. There is nothing shameful about reading free romance stories online to find ideas. After all, most music that is written today was inspired by other songs that came before it. The same goes with most free romance stories online that you will read. Love indeed spawns love. So if you find yourself out of ideas to really make that special night with your lover, like we all do from time to time, then try checking out some free romance stories online, you might just find what the Dr. Cupid ordered. And in the worst case, you read some cool free romance stories online that may be sappy, but also will be entertaining.

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Sexy Spiritual Relationships: Scenario 2 - Bad Love

Have you ever logged onto the internet and read your love horoscope? I don’t do this all that often, but sometimes I am just curious as to what the stars might have to say about my birth sign and the current alignment of the stars as it relates to my love life. In many cases I have to admit that the love horoscope that I read was rather accurate for that night. The coolest thing that I have found about love horoscopes and other horoscopes is that you can easily find tons of free places online where you can read your scope and see what the stars may have in mind for your day, week month or year. While I know that love horoscopes are for purely entertainment purposes, it is still fun to see what sort of predictions are being made and indeed, if they are going to come true or not. The best part – at least in my mind – about such love horoscopes is that they predict romantic dates that are the best for intimate evenings, and sometimes they are right on the money!